Self acceptance, in my opinion, is something that I think may be on the same level if not, more than self love. We hear the term “self love” thrown around a lot and I think somewhere along the way, it’s a lost a bit of meaning. Now don’t get me wrong, self love is important, but self acceptance just hits different. I feel like it goes a bit deeper. In order to embrace you, the whole you, there needs to be an acceptance. I mean, if you don’t accept you, how do you love yourself?

A boudoir shoot in our Washington DC boudoir studio is definitely steps in the right direction when it comes your journey of self love and acceptance.

When Ms. F had her session, I remember her feeling apprehensive and nervous just like all my clients do, and about midway through the shoot, I could see her get a bit more comfortable and by the end, she was walking out of the studio way taller, makeup and hair still in tact, ready to take on whatever came her way. That’s the feeling I love seeing my clients take with them when they leave the studio. Best feeling in the world!

In her own words:

How would you rate your boudoir experience on a scale of 1-10?: ABSOLUTE 10! If I can give 100, I would!

How has your boudoir experience affected you or changed you?: I feel more aware of Self-Acceptance. Just be me and celebrate being me every single day.
I guess I discovered a different side of myself during the photoshoot, that it is okay to step out of your comfort zone, be vulnerable and embrace your feminine energy (oh yes, I went totally nekid and it felt so FREE)

What advice would you give someone who was nervous about or hesitant to book their own boudoir experience with me? : Use that nerve and get out there! You will be surprised on what you can do and how GREAT you will look.
And, Julie is AMAZING, she has this warmth about her, it feels like you are just having a fun and creative girls day out together. I completely forgot that it was a photoshoot session after my first shot.

Is there anything at all you would change about your boudoir experience?: NOPE! I would do it again and again in a heartbeat. I love that Julie and I can explore art and creativity through lens together.

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Having a photographic reminder of the very thing that seems so scary and so out of reach is such a powerful reminder of why that inner critic is just absolutely wrong.

Ms. R came to our Northern Virginia Boudoir Studio not sure what to expect, but after guiding her through the whole experience and even referring her to Le Bustiere for her outfit selections, she felt prepared and even more amazing after receiving her photos. Which of course is our goal here Julie Socher Boudoir.

Let’s she what she has to say:

How has your boudoir experience affected you or changed you?: Since doing my boudoir photo shoot, I can't tell you how much my life has changed. When I'm down or feeling anxious about whatever is going on in my life, I immediately look at my photos and they make me feel as if I can concur anything that comes my way, my confidence has been boosted 100%. I can't begin to explain how much good I feel for myself and for my abilities, this has been an amazing experience. It was so good I feel like doing another one already!!

What advice would you give someone who was nervous about or hesitant to book their own boudoir experience with me? : Please don't be nervous, Julie makes it so easy, it's as if I knew her a really long time. She knows what she is doing and makes you feel as comfortable as ever! Just remember that you can do anything you put your mind to, and that anything is possible. Julie will guide you each and every step of the way so that you know what to do and you feel 100% fabulous!

Is there anything at all you would change about your boudoir experience?: Absolutely nothing, it totally exceed all my expectations of what it would be like, I loved it so much.

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So you’re looking into having a boudoir session for yourself and you want to make sure you’ve picked out the best photographer for you. I’ve put together a few tips to help you decide and what to consider when choosing your photographer.

Some questions to ask yourself:

1) Do you love their style and artwork?

Check out their website, their social media for more examples of their work and look for consistency. Do the subjects in their photos appear relaxed or even look like they are having fun? This will give you a solid idea of how your photos will look and most importantly, do they have a diverse portfolio of ethnicities and body types?

Here’s where you can find more of my work:

website: juliesocherboudoir.com

Instagram: instagram.com/boudoirbyjuliesocher

2) Do they offer a complimentary consultation? 

You should never agree to book with a photographer before you know all the details and everything that you will be investing in. Boudoir shoots aren’t like regular portrait shoots and being well informed on their processes and offerings are very important when making your decision. In addition to meeting your photographer and going over the details, they should make you feel comfortable and feeling comfortable is super important. Boudoir photography is something where all the details matter.

3) Do they specialize in Boudoir photography? 

A photographer who is experienced in boudoir will most likely be experts at posing all body types and have invested in their own education on specializing in this genre of photography. They will want to know why you’ve decided to have a boudoir session so they can tailor your session to you and are experts at guiding you through an experience that is most likely out of your comfort zone.

4) Have they had their own boudoir session? 

It’s so important for your photographer of choosing to have done a boudoir session for themselves. They will know the exact emotions you are going through and should always walk the walk and not just talk the talk.

Look, it’s me!

5) Are their boudoir sessions full service? 

The boudoir photoshoot process is outside everyone’s comfort zone, so having a photographer that will walk you through every step from consultation to product ordering is important. Do they offer hair and makeup and help with wardrobe selection, will they guide you through posing and even help you select your photos and design your final product? These are all great qualities for a professional boudoir photographer.

6) What is their privacy policy when it comes to your photos? 

This one is really important. Because of the sensitive nature of boudoir photos, you want to make sure that you give permission to the photographer via a model release to use your photos for promotional purposes and social media posting. I take this one seriously and go over the model release with all my clients that way they can either give me permission or opt out. You have full control.

This is something that you are investing in, something you not only want to gift your partner and have them be blown away by, but this is an unforgettable experience for you that you will remember forever!

Definitely look around, check out other photographers. I’m here if you have any questions and more than happy to hop on a zoom call with you for a complimentary, no obligation consultation.

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